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	<description>A blog for The Irredeemable Shag ... A place for all things geek, focusing primarily on superheroes &#38; science fiction.</description>
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		<title>By: D18Matt</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-1268</link>
		<dc:creator>D18Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 19:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So sad. So true. I only have the one kid, though, so that must be why i can still sneak in the occasional geekery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So sad. So true. I only have the one kid, though, so that must be why i can still sneak in the occasional geekery.</p>
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		<title>By: Hunkburger</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-418</link>
		<dc:creator>Hunkburger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice post.  &quot;Alone time&quot; hit particularly close to home being a relatively new father.  My commute to work has essentially cut me off from the outside world as I prefer to listen to podcasts than the news radio station.  Apparently the Olympics are in China now?  My wife complains about the stacks of random comics found in the cabinet underneath the sink in our bathrooms.  I have some at the in-laws as well.  Be prepared!  You should also reap the benefits of surprise opportunites for alone time.  Such as when your spouse becomes part of a wedding party and you are not.  Huzzah!  Evenings of planning showers and other intricate wedding details that your opinion is not even considered.  &quot;Please let me get out of your hair.  No, no, no don&#039;t mind me.  I&#039;ll just go upstairs and read while.  You have fun.&quot;  You&#039;ve never seen a man run up the stairs with an armful of trade paperbacks so quickly in your entire life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice post.  &#8220;Alone time&#8221; hit particularly close to home being a relatively new father.  My commute to work has essentially cut me off from the outside world as I prefer to listen to podcasts than the news radio station.  Apparently the Olympics are in China now?  My wife complains about the stacks of random comics found in the cabinet underneath the sink in our bathrooms.  I have some at the in-laws as well.  Be prepared!  You should also reap the benefits of surprise opportunites for alone time.  Such as when your spouse becomes part of a wedding party and you are not.  Huzzah!  Evenings of planning showers and other intricate wedding details that your opinion is not even considered.  &#8220;Please let me get out of your hair.  No, no, no don&#8217;t mind me.  I&#8217;ll just go upstairs and read while.  You have fun.&#8221;  You&#8217;ve never seen a man run up the stairs with an armful of trade paperbacks so quickly in your entire life.</p>
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		<title>By: Shag</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-402</link>
		<dc:creator>Shag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 04:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theresa - I&#039;m glad you stopped by!  That Olive Garden story is too funny!  I know exactly the gut feeling you are talking about to correct the child .

Take care!
Shag</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theresa &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you stopped by!  That Olive Garden story is too funny!  I know exactly the gut feeling you are talking about to correct the child .</p>
<p>Take care!<br />
Shag</p>
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		<title>By: Theresa McCampbell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Theresa McCampbell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 01:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just read this and was cracking up the whole time (which I&#039;m sure the people sleeping in the other room didn&#039;t appreciate, but what can you do!).

The best part though, was the &quot;explaining to a small child why Batman and Spider-Man will never team up&quot; part at the end - it reminded me of a few weeks ago, and I felt compelled to share. I was at Olive Garden with my parents for my birthday, and I saw a little boy playing with action figures a few tables down. I was watching him play with delight (I don&#039;t see kids with afs much anymore) until I saw the figures that were fighting were Batman and the Green Goblin. I felt like it was my duty as a geek to go over there and explain to him why that fight would never actually happen. (I didn&#039;t, of course - my parents thought I was nuts when I pointed out the kid and his toys.)

I know the reply is several days late in posting, but I thought you&#039;d get at least a chuckle out of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just read this and was cracking up the whole time (which I&#8217;m sure the people sleeping in the other room didn&#8217;t appreciate, but what can you do!).</p>
<p>The best part though, was the &#8220;explaining to a small child why Batman and Spider-Man will never team up&#8221; part at the end &#8211; it reminded me of a few weeks ago, and I felt compelled to share. I was at Olive Garden with my parents for my birthday, and I saw a little boy playing with action figures a few tables down. I was watching him play with delight (I don&#8217;t see kids with afs much anymore) until I saw the figures that were fighting were Batman and the Green Goblin. I felt like it was my duty as a geek to go over there and explain to him why that fight would never actually happen. (I didn&#8217;t, of course &#8211; my parents thought I was nuts when I pointed out the kid and his toys.)</p>
<p>I know the reply is several days late in posting, but I thought you&#8217;d get at least a chuckle out of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Shag</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-394</link>
		<dc:creator>Shag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 03:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, you simply must read my friend Erika&#039;s follow-up to this!  She describes some of her own challenges and gives some fantastic subsequent rules.  Check it out at &lt;a href=&quot;http://idontreadmyblogeither.blogspot.com/2008/08/apply-within.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&quot;I don&#039;t read my blog either&quot;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, you simply must read my friend Erika&#8217;s follow-up to this!  She describes some of her own challenges and gives some fantastic subsequent rules.  Check it out at <a href="http://idontreadmyblogeither.blogspot.com/2008/08/apply-within.html" rel="nofollow">&#8220;I don&#8217;t read my blog either&#8221;</a></p>
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		<title>By: Shag</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:05:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pat - Thanks for the comment!  Good suggestion.

Also, back when I only had one child (step-son), I would&#039;ve totally agreed with you about one child.  The logical expectation is that an additional child would only be double the stress (or perhaps even less thanks to economies of scale).  Unfortunately, it doesn&#039;t work that way in real life (at least for many of us).  Two children is at least three times as challenging as one child.  I never would have believed it if I wasn&#039;t living it.  :)

Thanks again for the feedback!

Shag</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pat &#8211; Thanks for the comment!  Good suggestion.</p>
<p>Also, back when I only had one child (step-son), I would&#8217;ve totally agreed with you about one child.  The logical expectation is that an additional child would only be double the stress (or perhaps even less thanks to economies of scale).  Unfortunately, it doesn&#8217;t work that way in real life (at least for many of us).  Two children is at least three times as challenging as one child.  I never would have believed it if I wasn&#8217;t living it.  <img src='http://onceuponageek.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks again for the feedback!</p>
<p>Shag</p>
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		<title>By: Shag</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-392</link>
		<dc:creator>Shag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:02:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tommy - There you go! &lt;img src=&quot;http://images.cafepress.com/product/125832120v2_240x240_Front_Color-White.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tommy &#8211; There you go! <img src="http://images.cafepress.com/product/125832120v2_240x240_Front_Color-White.jpg"/></p>
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		<title>By: Thomas Fuhs</title>
		<link>http://onceuponageek.com/2008/08/13/job-description-married-geek-with-children/comment-page-1/#comment-391</link>
		<dc:creator>Thomas Fuhs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 23:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, sub out &quot;gaming&quot; and/or &quot;Sci Fi&quot; for &quot;comics&quot; &amp; I&#039;m totally there. Thing is, will they make a &quot;My MOM is a geek&quot; for my daughter&#039;s future offspring?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, sub out &#8220;gaming&#8221; and/or &#8220;Sci Fi&#8221; for &#8220;comics&#8221; &amp; I&#8217;m totally there. Thing is, will they make a &#8220;My MOM is a geek&#8221; for my daughter&#8217;s future offspring?</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 22:52:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Per the Mother-in-law visits:  an acceptible substitute to this, for those whose mothers-in-law live locally, is to become close friends with the father-in-law (for geek dads).

Including, but not limited to, sharing the same interests, affiliations, or hobbies as the father in law.  This will allow for extended periods of additional guy time- and possibly even some geekery.

Great entry.  Pretty spot on- although I would quibble over the two-child minimum.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Per the Mother-in-law visits:  an acceptible substitute to this, for those whose mothers-in-law live locally, is to become close friends with the father-in-law (for geek dads).</p>
<p>Including, but not limited to, sharing the same interests, affiliations, or hobbies as the father in law.  This will allow for extended periods of additional guy time- and possibly even some geekery.</p>
<p>Great entry.  Pretty spot on- although I would quibble over the two-child minimum.  <img src='http://onceuponageek.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 18:57:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best. Post. EVER! I&#039;m still laughing.</description>
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